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Nobody is an island

Joerg Kuehn · Mar 30, 2022 · Leave a Comment

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Quite some time ago I came across the following song by the German songwriter Gerhard Schöne. It takes the form of a parable.

Many years ago, a man arrived at the gateway to heaven. As he had lived a good and humble life, he was pleased to stand outside the glowing gates of heaven, ready to ascend into the light and love of the afterlife. But there was a thought he struggled to let go of.

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The gatekeeper, being quite observant, noticed his hesitation and asked the man: “What is bothering you, my friend? You seem troubled. Is there unfinished business?”

“Not really,” said the man. “Everything is sorted just fine down there, but I find myself wondering what hell is like. I never really believed in heaven or hell all my life, but now, I am really wondering what it looks like.”

“You may be surprised.” The Gatekeeper smiled: “As with all great truths, it’s not as simple as you may think, yet also, far simpler. Let me show you.”

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The “perfect heart” for a life well lived

Joerg Kuehn · Jun 23, 2021 · 2 Comments

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A good friend of mine (Thanks a lot Emma!) recently shared a wonderful story with me, which I immediately felt compelled to “steal” and share it with you:

“One day, a young man walked into the village square and declared he had the most perfect heart in the whole valley.  A crowd gathered around him and all admired his heart, because it was, indeed, perfect.  No stains, no defects.  Yes, they agreed, it was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was proud and boasted even more about his beautiful heart.

Suddenly, an old man appeared from the crowd and said, ‘Listen, your heart is half as beautiful as mine.’

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How are you really doing?

Joerg Kuehn · Apr 28, 2021 · 1 Comment

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20 year old Jonny Benjamin was not well.  He had been diagnosed with a mental illness which caused him to slide into a severe depression, and, on a cold January morning in 2008, he decided to end his life. Dressed only in a T-Shirt, he walked up to Waterloo bridge in London, stepped over the railing, and was ready to go.

But all of a sudden, a stranger came up and started talking to him: “Hi mate, can you tell me why you’re sitting on the bridge?”  Gloomily and hopelessly, Jonny replied he was going to take his own life.  But the stranger would not let go and kept talking to him. “Please don’t do this mate.  Please don’t do this.  Let’s just go for a coffee.  Let’s just talk it over.” The stranger kept talking to Jonny in tones full of compassion, kindness, and genuine concern.

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The surprising modern insights of an old tradition!

Joerg Kuehn · Dec 22, 2020 · Leave a Comment

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The word “Heimat” has a special meaning for me and many people in Germany, as it represents the area where we grew up, with all our personal experiences, memories, values, traditions and people.  My Heimat is at the foot of the Erzgebirge (Ore Mountains) in the Eastern part of Germany.

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The Erzgebirge is famous for its longstanding mining tradition.  In 1168, the first silver ore was found near today’s Freiberg.  The mining industry in this area produced silver and iron ore as well as lead, cobalt, nickel, zinc and uranium until the end of the 20th century.

The job of the miners was very hard.  Working hours were incredibly long and the work was intensely tough, as they faced life threatening conditions hundreds of metres below the surface.

As winter approached, it got even tougher, as the miners would not see daylight for weeks and months, leaving their homes in darkness in the early morning and returning home after sunset.  It is, therefore, understandable that these miners had a natural and strong longing for (day) light as a symbol of life, safety and hope.

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Stumbling on Happiness

Joerg Kuehn · Nov 25, 2020 · 1 Comment

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I grew up being told I had a cat allergy.  In October 2014, when my future wife Anne moved in, she brought along her cat, Sebastian.  Initially, I was not sure this would work, but it soon became clear that not only was I not allergic, but life with a cat was a new and enriching experience.  He added peace, playfulness and calmness to my life. Unfortunately, due to diabetes and other complications, Sebastian passed away in October 2015.

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After a few month of “cat-less living”, we decided to get a new one.  Entering Mrs. Wong’s cat shelter, we were greeted by more than a hundred cats.  Our “target cat-specification” was very clear:  black and male with a long-tail similar to Sebastian. Beginning to look around for that “perfect-fit”, one cat seemed highly interested in us and even jumped on us (s.picture).  This cat was the total opposite of our target specification, as she was female and three-colour with only half a tail.

The next day, I asked my wife: “Do you think there was any meaning behind this cat jumping on us, almost choosing us?  Should we go and get her?” Anne said yes, and soon the cat, which was called “JW2,” came home with us (JW – abbreviation of “Jurong West”, the district of Singapore where she was found). She was “off-spec” … but had chosen us.

Why am I sharing this story?

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